I had a lovely experience with my conversation partner, Aeyil last Thursday (1/19). I was a bit nervous meeting up with her at first, and I sensed her nervousness as well. We met in the Oglesby Student Union, grabbed lunch and headed to the outdoor seating area. I used some basic ice-breakers, like asking about South Korea, why she is here, and what she likes about Tallahassee. The walls started coming down, and we even discussed pretty abstract topics such as Women's Rights in South Korea vs. the U.S. and the effects of the U.S. military presence in South Korea. Aeyil spoke at an advanced level, and I was so impressed. She has a very good command of the English language, and I believe that the most correction I will be able to offer her is perhaps word choice suggestions and the occasional grammar correction. Aeyil is a very interesting woman, and I believe, based on her life experiences and keen insight, that I will be learning more from her than she will be from me. My first CP meeting couldn't have gone better and was very affirming that I have chosen the right field!
Some things I might do differently next time include:
- Have a prepared list of guiding questions. I'm thinking about using one of those websites with lists that you would ask on a date!
- Planning a specific activity, such as bowling or pottery painting, rather than just sitting down and chatting.
I can't wait until the next meeting with Aeyil.
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